Spreading the Love

Okay girls and boys it's time to learn about Birth control and STD's.
1. Birth control pills are just the BIRTH CONTROL. Not STD prevention.. but birth control. Read the labels and instructions.
2. Condoms. WEAR THEM, PUT THEM ON RIGHT AND USE THEME EVERY TIME. As for birth control

You can take your pill every day just like a good little girl, but it won't keep you from getting STD's. You can use a condom every time you have sex, but it won't keep you from getting pregnant. Most of the time YES, but they do break, leak and get little holes them. Don't kid yourself. If you want to have sex. THINK first.

Females should always have a condom on hand if you think you might have sex, because the one has in wallet has been there a few months and is probably not safe to use. Just because you are prepared, don't mean you have to have sex or that you are going to. It means you care about your body and your health. This does not make you slut, it makes you smart!

Guys.. If you are going to carry them in your wallet your are a fool! This will cause friction in the package and lessen the life time of the latex and create holes. USELESS then. Pregnant next.

Okay.. Now for the good stuff!
Parents! You have a teenager at home. Think about it! Were you not young and dumb once. Puberty strikes your beautiful little girl is becoming a blooming young lady and your son is be coming a walking hard on. They have questions, you are the ones with the answers. Don't be shy. Tell them like it is. Sex is great, but you gotta be safe and ready to accept whatever happens.

You think they aren't curious and having sex. Assume the worst, they probably are. So prepare them. Put your daughters on the pill and buy your sons condoms. You think you condoning sex, your not. Your preventing unwanted babies and keeping your child safe. Think about what you did in high school, on prom night, after the foot ball games, and out in back of a station wagon. You weren't an angel, assume they aren't either.

You don't have to promote sex, but it is your responsibility to explain to them and teach them. These are you babies, do you want you baby having baby. Do you want to raise another baby now that yours are almost out of the house? Think about it.
Prepare them for life!

Going to the Chapel

Well needless to say Mama wasn't happy with her lil girl, but stuff happens. Mama decided (cause back then Fancy couldn't think for herself) that it would be small church wedding. Few friends and family with a preacher. It had to be in church with a preacher. So it was. His best friends, parents, my Mama, brother and us.



Well 6 months later big bundle of joy was hatched. I have to phrase it that way because that is how it was. 24 hours of hard labor and no baby. Well MAMA was mad at the old school country Doctor by then and for letting her lil girl so long without doing anything. Needless to say, our lil bundle of joy was the size of 2 month old at birth. I was rushed to the nearest hospital that actually had surgeons and real facilities. An emergency c-section was performed and our son was hatched. 9 pounds and 11 ounces of baby out of 15 year old lil girl that didn't have a clue how to raise a baby.

14 and Pregnant

I was a fairly mature kid and was able to convince my mother to let me do just about anything. I managed to convince her at 14 that I was old enough to start dating. I was responsible and would be home on time every time, and I was. It was the time in between leaving and coming home that she should have worried about. I really didn't get in any trouble. I didn't drink a lot and I never did any drugs. Hell I didn't even try weed til I was 37. I felt like I was good kid anyway. Then I feel in love. If that is what you want to call it at that age. I managed to get mama to let me start dating on my 14th birthday. The date was nothing fancy now that I think back. Dinner at a restaurant and movie. He was nice and very much a gentleman then. It was for a couple of months before he told me he loved me. REALLY! How in hades do you know what love is at that age. Well I thought I did! He said I love you and I melted into a puddle of oks and yess. About 6 months later we broke up. For a whole week. AND then it happened! We get back together and he wants make up sex. He didn't have a condom with me and promised me it would be ok, he would pull it out. So, being the fool I was well you know what happened next. Yep a few weeks go by and Aunty flow never comes to visit, another month and still no visit. Well SHIT I'm preggers. Mama isn't going to like this one bit! I told him first, he said he would take full responsibility and we would get married.
Well I figured the safest thing for me was to pick the perfect time to tell her.
So, I waited and waited, finally she went to the bathroom. I knew she was gonna be there a while and couldn't run after me if she was on the toilet. I busted in the bathroom and right in the middle of her evening dump, I told her.

How the story began......

The story started about 45 years ago in the armpit of hell in Texas. Mama tired to raise us better, but she worked a lot, a whole lot. Dad died when we were wee babes and she has worked 2 or more jobs ever sense. I'm telling my story so that maybe someone will learn a few things that it took me the better part of 45 years to learn.
Men! they lie to get what they want and it is usually one thing. Weather you a young, dumb 14 year old lil girl in the back seat of station wagon or 44 year old woman that thinks you know it all. MEN LIE! I kid you not!
Just assume, ladies, queens, and my dear boiz that MEN LIE!






To this day.. I will advocate for everyone having sex to use a condom even if he says, "If any thing happens I will take responsibility."